(الذي خلقني فهو يهدين والذي هو يطعمني ويسقين وإذا مرضت فهو يشفين والذي يميتني ثم يحيين والذي أطمع أن يغفر لي خطيئتي يوم الدين) قول إبراهيم عليه السلام
قرآن كريم
Kid you’ll move mountains
It’s me time
= Personal Banking Account
Keep promises to yourself,
Do small acts of kindness,
Be gentle with yourself,
Be honest,
Renew yourself,
Magnify your talent
= Habit 1: Be proactive
Proactive people makes choices based on values.
They think before they act.
They recognize they can’t control everything that happens to them, but they can control what they do about it.(Because the promise of Allah is
true, Insha’a Allah I will enter Paradise .
They have: Self-awareness, conscience, imagination, will power.
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= Habit 2: Begin with the End in mind
Control your own destiny or someone else well.
Decide what your values are and setting goals.
Since you are the Driver, decide where to go and draw a Map of how to get there.
The paths you choose today can shape you forever.
Read mission statement everyday (memorizing Allah).
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= The road to anywhere is really a life to nowhere
Standing like a tree with deep roots helps you survive all of the storms of life that beat you up.
Think deeply about what life; what you want to make of it.
Tough experience can carry momentum.
Whatever the mind of man can conceive and believe, the hand of man can achieve.
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Turning weaknesses into strengths
Being perfect is not about that scoreboard out there. It is not about winning. It is about you and your relationship with yourself, your family and your friends.
Life is a mission, not a career. Career is a profession. A mission is a cause.(creation of a man on earth)
Most of us will never do great things. But we can do small things in a great way.
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Habit 3: The first things first (will and won’t power)
Time Quadrants:
1- urgent and important (help someone). When one of a flock of immigrant birds became sick during the voyage, two of colleges leave with it down to earth didn’t let it.
2- Prioritize (when the leader of a flock of birds felt sick, it return back at the end allowing another strong bird led the flock instead of it).
3- urgent but not important (the yes-man): Don’t always to say “Yes” before thinking.
4- Neither urgent, nor important (waste and excess): Ex: Don’t waste time in front of the TV.
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Although it’s a struggle, staying balanced is important to you.
Never let your fears make your decisions
Successful people have the habit of doing the things failure don’t like to do.
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Relationship Bank Account
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Habit 4: Think win – win
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yXNB_ubPFKQ
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Personal security is the foundation for thinking win – win (always Memorizing Allah)
Avoid tumor twins:
1- competing.(negative competition)
2- comparing.
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Habit 5: seek first to understand then to be understood
To see things from another’s point of view before sharing your own.
To become a genuine listener.(Every thing else saying?)
It is silly to try to win conversation that usually ends up in (Win – Lose or Lose – Win and is a withdrawal from Relationship Bank Account).
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Remember, unexpected feelings never die. They are buried alive and come forth later in uglier ways
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Habit 6: Synergize https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1qzzYrCTKuk&list=PLSMZDoMBob775qYejdTdd5HbuDjwHh96E
قال الله تعالى: ” يَا أَيُّهَا النَّاسُ إِنَّا خَلَقْنَاكُم مِّن ذَكَرٍ وَأُنثَىٰ وَجَعَلْنَاكُمْ شُعُوبًا وَقَبَائِلَ لِتَعَارَفُوا ۚ إِنَّ أَكْرَمَكُمْ عِندَ اللَّهِ أَتْقَاكُمْ ۚ إِنَّ اللَّهَ عَلِيمٌ خَبِيرٌ (13)
Celebrate Diversity
Differences create the challenges in life that open the door to discovery
Synergize is 1+1= 3 (prophet Muhammad in cave of Hera with Abu Bakr)
Obstacles of synergism:
1- ignorance
2- cliques
3- prejudice
Alone we can do so little: Together we can do so much (Helen Keller)
1-Teamwork
2- Plodders
3- Followers
4- Innovators
5- Harmonizers
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Habit 7: Sharpen the saw
It means regularly renewing and strengthening the four key dimensions of your life:
Body
Brain
Heart
And Soul
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If you can simply learn to think, you will have plenty of career and education options to choose from.
Refusal skill: Staying away from drugs of all kinds is a lot easier said than done. .
•Ask questions. Ask tough questions that really make you think about what you’re doing. “Why would I want to smoke?”
•Name the trouble. Try to put a face on what you’re doing. “Smoking pot is illegal.”
•State the consequences. Think through the consequences of your actions. “I could get arrested if I’m caught with drugs.”
Sharpen the saw in the spiritual area of life means taking time to renew and awaken that inner self.
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